As today someone from Canada asked me this question again as he imported an E32 750iL from Japan and has the cat warning, here is a pic of the special relay for 870 degree Celsius which is located under rear seat driver side
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Just pull it out and the problem is solved. But you could try to repair it. If you want a used one, you probably won't find these in N.A., I should have some used on stock.
Another solution:
the cable white/purple/yellow goes from this module to another plug on pin 20 to the CCM. If you cut off this cable and connect it to ground, that has the same effect.
Then download these Japanese spec wiring diagrams
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