Welcome to the board Jimmy!
I take it you didnt get an owners manual with the car? You might be able to pick one up from the dealer, theres all kinds of bells and whistles you'll probably never find out about without one.
As for your non-start and running problems I would say to look through the records to see what was recently replaces as in tune up parts and go from there. Could be something simple and could need a complete tune up/service inspection to rule out the obvious.
Good luck!
95 E34 530I V2.37
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