"no takers on getting an answer"
-but at least some advice in the right direction! how long u had the car and what country is it in? when was the last time the tranny fluid was changed? have you taken it to a professional? between all of us here most things can be fixed but at the end of the day you might consider taking to an indy and having it professionally assessed. doesnt sound electrical and most folks here dont have a crystal friggin ball.
-who the fk is sunbum? did he do a search? cause there would have to be a million pages on this. Use the search function on the first page.
Best of luck