Well, the general concensus is what I expected.... I was planning on the Lemforder arms w/ the 750 bushings again.
As far as torquing the arms under load, I am the only only one who ever puts a wrench to my cars; I made sure as I have in the past to lower the car to the ground and actually drove it down the driveway and back (about 1/8 mile) before torquing the bolts for the arms. I guess I've just been driving her a little hard since my 535 has been apart, and the crappy meyle parts just don't hold up. Thanks guys... I'll order the Lemforder arms like I put on the 535.
1991 535i 176k (under serious surgery: repaint, interior swap, manual conversion, etc.)
1993 750iL 132k