after some more driving... there is absolutely NO power between idle and about 2600rpm, the throttle feels like a soggy sponge, then suddenly it all rushes in and goes all the way to shift point without a problem, also shifting smooth.
downshifts are really abrupt, 4th to 3rd is stuttery, 3rd to 2nd and 2nd to 1st are abrupt and harsh... upshifts are smooth under full-throttle, but under light throttle it feels like it's shifting twice rapidly, and it feels like something is grabbing the car is pulling it back
also, it seems to be building torque when im stopped, causing the car to move quite rapidly when i let go of the brake, but then it will suddenly lose momentum and just roll silently. the engine is FINE in park or neutral, revs smooth and normal, all fluids are fine, no odd noises or smells. idle in park or neutral is normal (~700), in reverse or drive hovers around 550 and is rough as hell
if anyone has any idea what could be causing this, please let me know... even if it's just an idea... i am totally stumped, i've looked through the bently for the last hour and googled a hundred times but come back with nothing i've also disconnected the battery for 30 mins in the hope it might reset something buggered in the software, but no change